Regarding the outdoor area for 10k: Everything will be done by ourselves here. We have many friends who have the necessary materials and skills. We don’t have high demands here. The yard will be paved, the terrace laid with slabs, and the rest will be a green lawn. I think 10k is already well calculated there.
There is a lot of support from the family side, all four parents live in the same town where the house is being built. The daycare is free. Sure, costs will come up that we might not be counting on now, but as I said, there is great support.
Regarding the fence: We don’t want one there, friends will build on both right and left of us.
Regarding KfW funding: It has already been approved, albeit two days before the deadline, but approved.
Regarding parental allowance: That is only in the first year anyway. After that, W will work again and will surely earn around 2000 euros, that works too, as I said, the four parents live in the same town and the two female parents only work part-time.
Regarding M’s income: There will definitely be more progress in the coming years!
In general: For us, it has always been the second biggest wish (after having a child) to build our own house. We currently live in an apartment that only has limited space for one child.
Unlike most other forum members, I think this sounds like a really, really great project and you should definitely do it. In my estimation, rents will continue to rise and you have great support from your family and friends, so you can approach the house building project calmly. It doesn’t all have to be now and immediately, some things will just be bought or optimized bit by bit.
Good relationships and support save a lot of money when building a house (... and even more with parents and possibly grandparents on site ;-) ). Besides, in your own house you have influence on the extra costs, which is only limited in rental apartments. I am still surprised how high the extra costs are in rental apartments.
And if it temporarily gets financially tight, you can certainly get a monthly interest-free loan from within the family, which you then repay later when the salary situation has improved or the children are older.
I dare say: Do it, you will manage. :)
Hey sorry, but leave out the garage. ... (the Germans and their garages. I just don’t understand it.)
That’s the men. ;-) I hope my husband might give up the house for his favorite after all ... although, since I recently drove into a dent, he loves it less. ;-)
I find garages so ugly and haven’t even seen a house that looks prettier because of the garage. For me, it’s almost a fixed idea that I notice the ugly garage more strongly than the actual house.