an interesting point is the dialogue between the optical appearance and inner processes.
there is usually something like a judgment: one thing is good and the other is bad.
... and when you question that - is it really like that, or does anything get better from this classification? - you can often relax more.
What I find crucial in such questions is always: does the world become more pleasant through my judgment or not?
A neighbor, at least, who thinks my house is dumb just because it doesn't look new, I find dumb.
... unless he is right :oops:
... did I say it is easy? No!
Whether something has dignity or is simply neglected can be a fine line.
Taking a close look, anyway, I always find right. Inside and out :cool: