Hello.
First of all, thank you for your comments.
I will try to describe the situation a bit more and answer the questions:
1. We have 2 children (12 + 14) and currently live in my parents' house, where we renovated the upper floor ourselves; everything is fine so far. We basically have everything we need, but it is not barrier-free, with steps and stairs everywhere, but there are no ongoing loans.
Then I inherited this building plot and have already saved some money that I would like to invest in a house before inflation eats up the money.
Whether I will move in there in old age, or one of my children, or due to the children’s future professions none of us will move in, is still unknown.
Therefore, I am looking for flexible use. A larger family uses both residential units, or two smaller families live in the house.
The attic can initially be used as storage space, or later one or two rooms can be built there; I am still considering how I will execute the staircase to the attic (pull-down stairs vs. proper stairs in the stairwell).
2. I have also considered moving the garage further forward in favor of the long driveway (see picture); the driveway would then be 4m shorter. Whether I have to provide parking spaces on the driveway is still unknown, but that would work in both versions.
3. Then I also considered giving a room on the upper floor two doors so that it can be used by both residential units as needed; see sketch, I edited the picture myself accordingly.
4. Since the plot is narrower in the front than in the back, I pushed the house and garage back, also because of the garden on the south side.
Since there is no urgent need, it is difficult to know exactly how it should be.
However, I definitely want the first residential unit to have everything on one level. Then the basement or a second floor will be added, and I expect better use from the second floor at probably the same costs.
Regards
Ralf