Noelmaxim
2019-05-19 18:25:42
- #1
One thing is the furniture, the other is a certain standard of the house that simply cannot be achieved with a certain price
You don’t want to understand that, you still think it’s helpful to just throw out a blanket statement! Even if, for example, only 2 out of 100 builders would build their house for 1,300 euros per square meter, it doesn’t help anyone, especially not those two, if, for example, you spout your general phrases.
It doesn’t matter whether the master bricklayer and his wife as roofer build the house in Kläden near Stendal and/or Kulle as bricklayer with his guys from the fire department and the soccer team in the countryside build the house and/or the house at Dad’s on the back plot is built in the simplest execution without much frills!
I know that some, for example living in their suits in downtown Cologne and/or the loner with two left hands, can’t imagine any of this and need the Mercedes among the construction companies, but just ask for more information, stop saying it’s not possible and doesn’t exist, find a compromise between individual help and pointing out pitfalls and classic mistakes and the acceptance that there are indeed people who make seemingly impossible things possible through diligence, skill, contacts, and time.
I feel that way too much is cut down with the scythe of negative experiences, too little questioned, and too little clearly explained about the project!
Of course, there are limits everywhere, of course you should warn and point out things, but not with the all-too-common sweeping generalizations, even a certain arrogance, and in part envy! What doesn’t work for me, didn’t work, or has to work, can’t work for others either, what I have to pay, others have to pay too, and if I don’t consider a kitchen for 5,000 euros acceptable and sufficient, others don’t have to be satisfied with it either, and if my house must be finished tight as a drum in 8 months, the construction, for example as a self-build, may not take longer for others to complete, and if my outdoor facilities require a fence, paving must be done because gravel looks crappy and cheap, then another person can’t just build their simplest house!
If you really want to help, just drop your own standards for once, ask more questions, try to put yourself in the other person’s shoes, and above all, just ask for more information, let a few facts come to you, be simply more objective and curious about the project of the OP, the consumer, before you can’t see yourself in the house, don’t believe in the project, or simply lack the possibilities for it.