Construction loan - Ex-partner does not pay his share

very good! Then I don't have to read anything from you here in the future

Hmm.....now we all actually forgot how simple life is for divorced people, their children, and new partners!

What should be complicated about it? Ex signed a valid contract with a notary and was informed by him about her rights and obligations! Now she only remembers her rights, so she must be reminded of her obligations! Very simple and totally uncomplicated if she doesn't pay her installments through an enforceable title! Everything else is just emotional whining from people who have money to give away and like to be taken advantage of!

Everything else is just emotional whining from people who have money to give away and like to be ripped off!

Nah, basically nothing is complicated, you are absolutely right and apparently you manage just fine like that....... so far; congratulations on that, I hope it stays that way for you!

By the way, death is also nothing complicated, a few documents are filled out and signed, someone is buried, a bottle of beer and a few songs, all totally easy..... or do you decide when "whining" is appropriate or maybe even do some "whining" yourself once? Surely not, everything is so easy!
Dog dies, family falls apart, unemployment...... all "whining".... pah, these wimps!

Of course, there is a purely factual side but as you could read, there are people involved in different dependencies, situations and relationships.
You might be highly successful and polished, clever and always acting logically and apparently free from those silly things..... umm.... I think they are called feelings.

Five grams of empathy combined with a bit more actual life experience instead of babbling could have prevented you from commenting so arrogantly about a sad and tricky situation of other people by calling it "whining" (often the speech of spoiled girls).
As you could read, several children are also affected by and will be affected by the consequences of a divorce and its aftermath; including two former spouses, who are partly in difficult situations as well as new partnerships.
Almost everyone, except apparently you, knows that divorce usually means tragedy, it hits the people involved hard and they suffer from it and problems partly carry over into new partnerships (read here).
But luckily there are young, dynamic smart alecks who can tell all these failures that their "whining" is just silly fuss instead of resolving the matter easily.
Wow - what rubbish!

Everything else is just emotional whining from people who have money to give away and like to be taken advantage of!

Complicated things can be mastered by simplifying.
Complex things cannot.
Relationships are complex in cases of separation. Calling that "emotional whining" is a simplification. Of course solutions can be found. Simplification is not one of them; that is obvious in itself and stupid.

No, basically nothing is complicated, you are absolutely right and apparently you manage just fine like that....... so far; my congratulations on that, I hope it stays that way for you!

By the way, death is nothing complicated either, a few documents are filled out and signed, someone gets buried, a bottle of beer and a few songs, all totally easy..... or do you decide when "Mimimi" is appropriate or maybe you even do "Mimimi" yourself once? Certainly not, it’s all so easy! Dog dies, family breaks apart, unemployment ...... all "Mimimi"....pahh, those wimps!

Of course, there is a purely factual side to it, but as you could read, people are involved in different dependencies, situations and relationships. You may be highly successful and smooth, clever and always acting logically and apparently free from these silly things.....um....I think they are called feelings.

Five grams of empathy combined with a bit more real-life experience rather than babbling could have prevented you from speaking so arrogantly about a sadly tricky situation of other people by calling it "Mimimi" (often the speech of spoiled girls). As you could read, there are also several children affected and will be affected by the consequences of a divorce and its side effects; plus two former spouses, who are partly in difficult situations as well as new partnerships. Almost everyone, except apparently you, knows that divorce usually means tragedy, that it hits the people involved hard and they suffer from it and problems partly carry over into new partnerships (read here). But luckily there are young, dynamic smart alecks who can tell all these losers that their "Mimimi" is just silly fuss instead of settling the matter easy. Wow - what rubbish!

OMG, just useless blah blah again! What use is it for the original poster here to have pity for the ex and maybe the new relationship also falls apart because of it! Contracts are generally made to be kept and not, if one side no longer likes it, to simply press the tear gland, especially since she obviously is capable of paying, only the will is clearly missing! Now I am curious about your clever advice! Form a circle and then everyone loves each other again? Just pay the loan, write off the money? Or wait until the bank takes action and the house is auctioned off? Just switch off emotions for once and then you know what to do! It’s like with some financing questions—the truth is not liked to be heard!

Complicated things can be mastered by simplifying.
Complex things cannot.
Relationships are complex in case of separation. Calling that "emotional whining" is a simplification. Of course one can find solutions. Simplification is not one of them, that is already obviously stupid in itself.

....it would make sense to also read this and at least try to understand it, even if it might be difficult.

OMG just useless babble again!

I actually like such amusing know-it-alls because their constant cool demeanor says so much about them.

Form a circle and then everyone will love each other again?

Some winner types sometimes sit down faster than they would have liked; I can assure you, it will also help you to eat this cookie -

Just turn off emotions and then you know what to do!

Freely after Sylvester Stallone... that's exactly how it goes. Finally a groundbreaking message to all those whining divorced people and their children. Where was that world war that can quickly solve?

pressing the tear gland

....I have read nothing of that from TE so far or were you briefly somewhere else and got lost here? No, no one has spoken of that regarding the payment defaulter so far. Your so-called "whining" did not come from there.

Now I’m curious about your clever advice!

Sorry, I don’t see myself capable of that (see also above --ability to distinguish between "complex" and "complicated"--) and then babble afterwards... even if it’s hard, because of course one already has the solution up their sleeve -
Wonderful... how easily one can solve all the problems of others with a few memorized phrases... and usually stands there foolishly asking for help with their own.