Understandably difficult for you to know whom or what to believe here, so here's a brief explanation:
You can google HOAI calculators and read up on them briefly; they also explain the content of the service phases there.
You will find that your offer roughly contains service phase 2 and service phase 4.
You can enter that into the calculator and you will get about €4,300 net fee. A star architect wouldn't so much as lift a finger for that; a run-of-the-mill signature-filer would also do it for €2,000. That’s where it stands. At that price, you can assume it’s a reputable architect creating something special for you—but not a superstar.
Regarding your house costs: 360 BGF is about 280 sqm of living space—that costs at least €600k for a standard house in southern Bavaria. A house for which service phase 2 costs €10,000 will rather cost seven figures.
Yes, the more posts, the more opinions, the more confusing the jungle becomes for us… Regarding the HOAI calculator, I had already run through various prices, but the question is always how high the eligible costs really are, because that is what it ultimately depends on.
It definitely is not a star architect or well-known architect (at least not to me), and we also do not want anything extravagant, just a simple single-family house, without much frills.
Regarding the living area and BGF… well, that’s a bit nebulous. We had estimated about 140 sqm on the ground floor and about 125 sqm on the first floor. No basement will be built because it would exceed the budget.
We will have to do quite a bit of work ourselves to keep it financially feasible, so at the current stage, we hope not to exceed €600k, especially as some parts (e.g., the upper floor) will be done step-by-step…
Conclusion… We will try again to find 1-2 general contractors who will give us their price expectations, then the architect’s offer might be better assessed (by the way, a prefab house provider quoted €8.7k net for architect services… we just don’t want a prefab house provider…).
We will keep you updated!