The pure FTTH connection from Telekom is already stable, but the Telekom peering behind it is not exactly great. I only have VDSL, but I switched to O2 because of the peering. Telefonica is better positioned there. O2, besides Telekom, also has the advantage that you automatically get your own IPv4 address. With other providers, you usually depend on a good support agent, have to book the option for an additional fee, or the option does not exist at all, as with Deutsche Glasfaser.
Many standard users hardly notice this at all, but if you have one or the other special use case, these additional points can already be important. For me, these are almost more important than the pure connection speed.