Right above that you write that your husband didn’t want wooden ceilings. Presumably, he could have done it. It also became a new building. Not that I’m any better. In the end, everyone only does what is within their own comfort zone. True renunciation? I don’t really believe in that. If you don’t fly, you probably just don’t have a need for long-distance travel, right? And you like your garden just the way it is :)
Who among us has actually ever given something up for the sake of the environment that they would have liked to have?
We don’t have the wooden ceiling because he doesn’t like it when it “swings.” I experienced that with my in-laws in their new building, either it was poor construction there or I don’t know - concrete is definitely different. We have a new building for that reason, because we wanted a ventilation system - and we looked at several existing buildings, but including all renovations they would have become at least as expensive as a new building, plus we still wouldn’t have gotten what we wanted. For those sums, it was out of the question.
Everything else is just assumptions from you :) But I have many places I would like to see, for example Canada. You could also sail there - if you then have enough consecutive vacation days... We have the nature-close garden because I like nature, yes. But I also like English lawns between flowerbeds. Still, I don’t have it because I saw how much more life there is in a meadow.
Renouncing for the environment? I do it almost every time I get on the bike instead of the car, especially in winter. I’m terribly lazy, and it almost always takes effort for me to take the bike. But I do it anyway. Just like I’m quite a meat eater, I like the taste, it fills me up, and I find vegetables terribly boring except for very few kinds. Nevertheless, I eat much less meat than before, sometimes none at all, and yes, there too I give up my personal preferences. Even more so every vegetarian/vegan does who completely abstains from meat. I, for example, no longer buy Nestlé products because they destroy nature and exploit people. Unfortunately, I really like a large part of their convenience junk food. Well, too bad for me.
So yes, there are many people who give things up for the sake of animal welfare or the environment.