I have received everything I need from my mom! There was nothing financial involved. Instead, life experiences that I would never ever want to miss. Multiple emigrations without significant personal capital to the most diverse countries were the most valuable gift my mother could give me.
Financially, I then built everything up on my own. I have actively provoked my luck so far and then made use of it.
For me personally, it always depends on a person’s journey and what they have been through. Not where they are. Because starting a stone rolling is much more difficult than keeping a stone that is already rolling in motion.
If you inherit capital and make something out of it, that’s great. I’m happy for everyone. But to put that person “higher” because, for example, they inherited a house on Sylt, than someone who, coming from a single-parent household with four siblings and a migration background living in a 3-room apartment in a rough area of Duisburg, has managed to get to a clean 2-room rental apartment with a completed vocational training, is nonsense in my opinion.
Of course, no one here ranks anyone over anyone else. All users here are quite fair and impartial. But I think most still know what I mean...
On the topic:
The market right now is simply disproportionate.
Some friends want to buy at the moment and occasionally ask me for my opinion. Then they are shocked that I advise everyone, under normal circumstances, not to buy a home for over 300k.
But that is my own honest opinion, and they asked for it.
I was recently at an older gentleman’s condominium because I was viewing a car with a friend. This gentleman paid off his apartment over 35 years and now has to pay 340 EUR monthly housing fees. He has the ground-floor apartment, which, according to him, is the largest of all (about 90 sqm). However, he still had a different idea of how it would be. The other owners often decide differently than he would like, but he is just outnumbered with his opinion.
Somehow also unfortunate! Paying off a place for 35 years and then still paying 340 EUR monthly housing fees to “improve”/“repair”/“replace” things you actually don’t want to.
My conclusion: IF an apartment, then only for rent. But that question no longer arises for me. Thank God!