pagoni2020
2020-06-29 11:13:05
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Maybe the two should have preferred to seek advice here in the forum
It's not about this OP or any other OP adopting the wishes and ideas of others.
It's about having listened to / looked at every objection / idea presented once and then deciding: Thanks, but no thanks.
The comments from forum users are only meant to sharpen awareness for / against decisions - nothing more.
Yes, absolutely, that's exactly how it should be.
My "note" referred exclusively to the private/personal environment, where the directly (often painfully) noticeable comparison happens more often. Envy and the actions resulting from it are often closer than one thinks or wishes.
If your gardener shows up with the Porsche, I don't care; if you were my neighbor or cousin, I could beat you up for that—