Thanks for your experiences!
It will probably come down to us having to "predict" our usage behavior. Currently, in our apartment, we do not yet have this option and it’s actually not something we’ve missed so far. However, this does not mean that it has to remain that way, especially since we now have the opportunity to plan for it in the new building. Our children are 6 and 9, and for some time, we will definitely still be regularly sitting together at the dining table.
We will certainly take your experiences into account and then hopefully make the right decision for us.