Saving or building, which is more sensible?

  • Erstellt am 2019-01-12 10:25:54

Zaba12

2019-01-14 09:58:58
  • #1
Na Na "advice" regarding the TE's lifestyle is inappropriate. Better like this than the other way around!

Again... The 360k€ and thus the sole ownership in the land register are far away. In 5 years, everything can turn upside down. Both financially and privately. Therefore, there is no need to discuss unlaid eggs.

Therefore, only one question is up for discussion, and the TE can answer it himself due to his profession.
 

Yosan

2019-01-14 11:04:00
  • #2
Sorry, but I have to say something about that. Nowhere did I talk about an "empire" or separate accounts, and certainly not that only one is on the land register. I’m rather talking about situations like this: The woman takes care of the child all day and the man goes to work. He comes home, drinks a coffee in peace, and then goes to the study (whether he really works there is another question... sometimes yes, sometimes no). After a while, she comes to him with the child and asks him to watch the child so she can clean the living room in peace or something like that, and he replies with "why didn’t you do that this morning? I still have work to do and someone has to earn the money after all." Things like that are quickly said but totally unfair to the woman... especially when HE really wanted a child, but it actually makes more financial sense that he works because he earns more than she does.
 

Nordlys

2019-01-14 12:07:03
  • #3
Yosan, you may have experiences that you project. I would claim that even in my generation, born 1958 me, 1963 her, 2 children, I the significantly higher earner, the above-mentioned behavior was and is not typical. I help her, she helps me. I also cannot understand the thing with my your our account. Marriage is community, table, bed, account. - At most, a business can be excluded as a legal entity. When I read, we have a 3-account system, or I want to go alone into the land register or whatever, I shake my head and think to myself, they have not understood marriage/love. The money that I earn today is not earned by me, but by us, because it is a joint work, I could not have pushed so hard at 35-40 when the children were younger and would not be where I am now if she had not had my back. Therefore, every cent is our cent. Karsten
 

Yosan

2019-01-14 12:16:30
  • #4
Nordlys, I see it the same way as you do, but unfortunately I know many couples of my generation (who are now around 30 years old) where it is not so clear and situations like the one described occur again and again. Maybe it is also because of the less clear distribution of roles... who knows
 

HilfeHilfe

2019-01-14 12:34:09
  • #5


I’m telling you, stupid women if they allow themselves to be treated like that. Totally out of touch and 1960s-like
 

Yosan

2019-01-14 12:39:07
  • #6
I don't think it's okay for you to generally call various women stupid here. Should they all break up immediately or what?
 

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