a few things are getting mixed up and confused here. Initially, I had the same mental block in heating planning.
First of all: what is your goal? That is not quite clear to me. You need to distinguish between theoretical calculations and real conditions here.
The 35°C flow temperature is normal because it refers to the NAT. The calculations show that your house must also be warm at NAT. So your heating system must be able to achieve a flow temperature of 35°C. In real life, however, this only occurs for 2 days every 5 years. Most of the time, your flow temperature fluctuates between 26 and 30°C, rarely above that.
Now you are asking the theoretician to reduce the flow temperature (remember, this only applies at NAT) in his calculations. That means he has to reduce the installation spacing (significantly in your example), otherwise your house will not be warm at NAT. This way you have a lot more water in the underfloor heating and need a higher volume flow, ergo a bigger heating system, which you actually don’t want because you reduced your flow temperature. Your smaller heat pump will quickly trigger flow faults. The bigger one starts short cycling massively, consumes more electricity because of this, and also breaks down faster. To manage this, you can then work with a buffer tank, which also costs money and reduces efficiency... and all this just because you want to reduce the theoretical value of 35°C, which in practice is hardly ever reached anyway.
Understandable? My advice: forget your idea.