The newer APs from Unifi can be set up with the app (which is basically also a controller). With one or two units and without using the functions, a controller on the computer makes little sense. I think enoausa is rather overwhelmed with that.
With the DECT phones, the question is how good the coverage is. Fritzbox is in a metal box. You might need repeaters. Unfortunately, I know many people who have problems with that. You can use your phone as a handset via the FritzFon app. It's also practical when you are on vacation. Connect to your home via VPN and then make calls in Germany for free. The phones that connect to the LAN are IP or SIP phones. Do you get the SIP data from your provider? These also need a power supply or POE. With multiple POE devices, it makes sense to consider a switch with POE. Depending on the manufacturer, the fans almost never run. I don't get the impression that you would push the network to its limits.
What kind of door station do you want? Some work via phone. Unfortunately, mostly through a cloud of the manufacturer, which would be a no-go for me. Alternatively, SIP telephone system. You can integrate both with Fritzfon and with SIP phones/handsets.