Thanks for the answers so far, but I do not want to go any further into the "Jane" topic.
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Gut feeling says the ground floor has improved, and the utility room can also be kept in full size.
I definitely need to take a closer look at the kitchen again, possibly mirror it once or set it back a bit with a counter.
I would like to keep the idea of the large study for now because I expect more usage possibilities than from a 50m² room.
Separating the dining room from the TV area also doesn't seem bad if the conversation topics diverge or when football starts ;)
Nothing has changed on the plan yet, but I am mentally considering removing the ceiling in the east (shower), basically a light space with a large window from ground floor to half of the upper floor. A bit less bathroom but I save the hallway up to one of the house corners. With a stylish staircase, it should also look good visually, hopefully privacy fits with the side facing the street and 14m to the boundary.
Now over Easter I will first be at the future building site (400km away).
I have now marked out (pink) a 9x11m house 10m from the street (trying to draw it in white). Boundary black on the right edge, left there is still the shed then parents' property.
I have meanwhile also received answers from the utility providers regarding connection routes:
Electricity: "doesn't matter"
Drinking water: 15m including house wall, directly from the street with max 1 angle
Sewage: 1.5m then shaft (this is also the case with all surrounding buildings)
