pagoni2020
2022-02-02 16:03:20
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Living together with the parents is also a good idea in my opinion. However, I would not decide this primarily for financial reasons but based on whether this fits into my life plan. Do we want to live there with our parents with all the advantages and disadvantages. At the time, I decided that way and would do it again, but I can also understand perfectly if someone does not do it for personal reasons (or the parents don’t). Besides the actual house construction, there are many other things to consider; otherwise, the technical building problems will be among the smaller ones later on. From a fundamental point of view, though, I think this lifestyle model is good. Now you would give the house seller an amount x "more" (you are only giving him "the market value"), with a new build the money just disappears somewhere else and don’t fool yourself into thinking you would get your house exactly the way you want it. When building, you will experience just as many restrictions and compromises. Therefore, both options are possible, I would just make sure not to talk myself into a version more beautiful than it is. The location of the building plot would also be decisive for me. I know a case where a house was placed on a rather mediocre building plot because that’s what they already had. My idea to sell it and buy a nicer plot elsewhere was ruled out because the family land is not sold. For me, it would have been an exchange but I was not the one to decide. I would ask the parents quite concretely, really CONCRETELY, how something like that would look regarding ownership structures and whether you would actually be the owner afterwards, meaning you can really decide freely. That’s why money would only be the next question after the how. But it is difficult to imagine if you don’t know the people involved, the house, and the plot either. Moving directly into a nice house has just as much appeal.