Thank you very much for all the answers here.
Currently, I tend to install decentralized devices from Meltem. Three times each over the two-room system, so that one bathroom/WC is ventilated and another room (bedroom, children's room, study) is ventilated. Then a standard device in the living room.
This puts the material costs at around 5k€ and I think the installation can be done very quickly and easily (flush-mounted set --> directly installed into the wall + laying 2-3 pipes).
This way, I have all rooms at least partially covered, meet my minimum requirements, stay within the budget, and do not have to have pipes laid throughout the entire house and accordingly box in ceilings.
Am I being too naive here?
Are the installation costs actually higher so that in the end I come close to a central system, and do I perhaps even need to be careful with the statics when laying pipes between rooms? Or do I need to consider more when installing the fans than just covering all rooms? I think here the details like air exchange rates / air volumes etc. are not fully covered (but as I said, I am not afraid to ventilate with the window if needed).
Also, I can imagine it being unpleasant if, for example, I am sitting in the study and the demand ventilation in the guest WC starts, that suddenly much more air is blown into the study or the fan becomes louder.
Also: do I have to make slots in the individual doors so that the air can circulate between the rooms?
Thank you very much!
Kiri