Since I have abandoned my wish to build a house, I will continue to cook with wood (Lohberger) and electricity (new Neff since last week) and can therefore join the conversation a bit.
I would never install a wood stove in a new building. I partly already have a sauna in a 70s building. In winter it’s OK (because the tiled stove in the living room is heated at the same time), in the transitional period it is used depending on the weather but from May to September it is not used. I believe our radiator in the kitchen has never been used for heating. I cannot imagine a wood stove in a new building.
You should not directly compare a wood stove with a Swedish stove. I heat the Swedish stove as long as I “need” it. With the wood stove, the dish decides how long and strong it is heated.
Have you had a wood stove so far? Cooking and frying go quite well. But baking? My mother, who has been dealing with such a stove since early childhood, bakes all her cakes in the electric oven. The temperature is just difficult to keep constant.
If the wood stove is installed, then I would separate the kitchen from the living and dining area.