Hello everyone,
First of all, thanks both for the alternative solution with the open kitchen and for the information about the survey.
I don’t know if an open kitchen is suitable for us, as with 4 children we rarely have the time to put the kitchen back into a tidy state immediately. That usually happens when there is time in between. Until then, one would (especially from my seat :D) see the untidy kitchen. On the other hand, the kids won’t be that small forever and in a few years we won’t have this time problem anymore. We will definitely keep that option in mind.
To be honest, I don’t find €1,500 too expensive for a complete house survey, but quite reasonable. Apart from that, I think next we will first look for professional help in the form of an architect before commissioning plans ourselves. Maybe the architect also has an alternative approach he prefers. From everything I have read, the lead times for the survey are quite limited, so we can plan it on short notice if needed.
Based on the tip from our elderly neighbors, we will also contact a local construction company that apparently carried out 90% of all renovation/maintenance work for the previous owners. Perhaps there are still execution plans or similar. This company apparently has a very good reputation in our region when it comes to old building renovation.
In parallel, my wife and I will sort our requirements into "Wünsch Dir was," "Realistisch," and "Minimal," so that a) we have material for the architect and b) a safeguard in case interest rates rise further (and our budget thus decreases)...
Thanks again for your input so far!