How long have people known each other? Until it comes to money, and by the way, I would have to know the director by now if I really want to be able to count on sustainable help and support someday, which the foreign bank wouldn’t have to provide or refuse at first; the emergency situation would have arisen, and that would be the reason why the house bank should be the better choice.
By the way, if people know each other, and have known each other for a long time, then I expect a top interest rate; I absolutely don’t see that here with the OP, not even remotely!
No bank wants to enforce third-party liquidation. The emergency case only occurs legally after 3 accumulated missed installments; before that, the bank has had many opportunities to bridge and endure the difficult situation. If it still didn’t succeed with the other banks, then it won’t succeed with the house bank that one supposedly knows for so long either, because none of the smiling people in ties signing the financing will pay the interest and repayment rates for the customer, not even the banker who is my buddy from football and the fire department.
Whoever was not my friend at the beginning regarding the conditions definitely won’t be one from a friendship perspective when something goes wrong later! It’s the bank, but for other – selfish – reasons.
Most third-party liquidations are carried out because usually, due to illness, divorce, or job loss, the non-performing loan had not been brought back into order for a longer period. Much more crucial, however, is that many consumers no longer wanted to get help. Bird/ostrich tactic, cover your head with a blanket, no longer read letters. Then even the buddy banker can’t help anymore. And let’s be honest, how strong is my personal bond to the banker at the house bank, if he’s not from the family or the circle of friends—and above all, where is that even the case?
I see no advantage in the house bank; to be honest, I even see a disadvantage, considering that this bank knows my entire financial situation, can access my account, and can even harass me in managing the account since the home financing has higher priority!
To offer an umbrella when the sun shines—but then also with great conditions if I need such a large sum for my life investment—but pull it away when it rains. This may be a cliché, maybe a stupid one, but it’s not without reason that it exists. If I get into financial trouble, I absolutely do not want to have my account with the bank where my existentially important home financing is domiciled, definitely not. But that is everyone’s own business; by the way, I’m writing all this as an ex-banker, one from a bank that today itself depends on help.
Don’t let anyone fool you, today is today; I want the best (not cheapest) conditions, and tomorrow is tomorrow, and most likely I won’t need any support then, and if I do, the other banks won’t let me down so quickly—not because we are friends, but because it’s about money and the bank doesn’t want to lose money in a foreclosure.