Paying "rent" to the partner... how?

The child issue, whether biological, moral, psychological... I don't want to talk about guilt in this context... doesn't belong here, I think, and the comment that a financial compensation should be created for it was more than inappropriate. I just wanted to say that in a relationship, you can/must sometimes make compromises. I am also surprised that no one says: I earn more, so I pay more. Actually, I was still waiting for that. Thanks for showing how you solved it.

why? When children come, it costs money. Then you insist on a contract then correctly draw one up

Thanks for quoting, I know what I wrote.

He’s giving up having children for you?
And that’s now supposed to be financially compensated?
And the whole discussion is relationship-threatening over 1-200€?
I think you already named the right conclusion:

That is what, in my opinion, went way below the belt. That you take the liberty of implying I should end my relationship because, according to your interpretation, I’m supposed to pay for him not being able to have children.

Others also responded to this comment, all good, I brought it up, but with a completely different background and not for you to use it as a setup to shove such a remark at me. My own fault, I should have saved myself that comment, still unnecessary.

why? If kids come it costs money.

If children were being considered, I would even agree with you. But that is not the case with me.

Well, you also brought up the option that it might possibly not be the right partner for you. You also made the connection again. I listed points that seem worth discussing. Anyway, I hope you both find a solution with which you can be happy together for a long time.

I would be interested in the role of the mother-in-law. Just for the entertainment value, I mean.

I only said at most that he is not the perfect partner, but in my opinion, there isn’t one.
That does not make him any less right at all.
But whatever. This saying of yours hurt me and therefore it stuck with me a bit (I am by far not perfect either).

Anyway, I hope you find a solution that makes you both happy together for a long time.

I take that as a sincere statement and say thank you.

I would actually be interested in the role of the mother-in-law. Just for the entertainment value, I mean.

You are mean!

You are evil!

If the Schwimu is such a monster, maybe something can be deducted from the bill? Like permanent pain and suffering compensation.