Paying "rent" to the partner... how?

2020-01-30 10:01:41

I’m also surprised that no one says: I earn more, so I pay more. Actually, I was still waiting for that.

Well, all forum members seem to consider the half solution fair. Why should you have to pay extra if your partner wants to build alone? I would never have come up with that idea.

We always did everything together, even before marriage. But that was a mistake, because after marriage comes the harsh financial awakening...
So it’s better to arrange things sensibly beforehand.

2020-01-30 10:04:04

The child issue, whether biological, moral, psychological... I don't want to talk about guilt in this context... doesn't belong here, in my opinion, and the comment that a financial compensation should be created for it was more than inappropriate. I just wanted to say that in a relationship you can/must sometimes make compromises.

I am also surprised that no one says: I earn more, so I pay more. That's actually what I was still waiting for.

Thanks for showing how you solved it.

Is it even certain that he alone will be granted the loan? Let's not end up having a "heated" exchange here and then he ends up crawling back to you.

You wrote that you don't have a property in sight yet, but a loan amount must be envisioned by you/him.

2020-01-30 10:07:03

If your money is not taken by your partner, then the state or someone else takes it.

Money comes and goes....... if I look at the thread with 20 pages, then it can be concluded that it is a complex topic.

2 options:

- bite the bullet and take a risk
or
- continue to have headaches
= everything has its pros and cons

Neo, you have the choice, which capsule do you want?

2020-01-30 10:42:24

Evil *Lol* why is there no "rolling on the floor laughing" emoji here???
The first time is free?

That I am good for a laugh once in a while honors me...

2020-01-30 10:43:42

You don't know the original document. But I didn't want your world to completely collapse

yes, it is certainly anchored somewhere

2020-01-30 11:53:28

The topic of children, whether biological, moral, psychological... I do not want to talk about guilt in this context... does not belong here, in my opinion, and the comment that a financial compensation should be created for it was more than inappropriate.

Since you have now repeatedly emphasized how inappropriate you found my comment:

The last word has not been said there, but since he forgoes children for me, I may forgo 100€ per month for him.

Paying "rent" to the partner... how?

nordanney

Zaba12

tumaa

HilfeHilfe

HilfeHilfe

apokolok