ypg but we have neither rented a house nor a garden. The garden belongs to the owner who lives on the ground floor, we live on the upper floor. The owner is my husband’s grandfather. We only moved here because his grandfather asked us to. We are allowed to use the garden (we always were, even before moving in). Since my husband was a child, he has mowed the lawn and, if necessary, cut down the trees (even when he did not live here) and occasionally trims the hedge. Yes, we were aware that we might have to take care of the garden, yes, we also missed the chance to back out, we could have taken over the gardening work on a large scale earlier. But why and how everything is the way it is now should actually not need to be explained and cannot be changed anymore. Even if I had rented a house with a garden, is that important here? I am asking for tips and help on how to best remove everything. How to redo everything is revealed to me by plenty of modern videos on YouTube, for that I don’t even need a book. And that I want to keep it simple or don’t want to have more here than necessary, I will not let myself be blamed for that. I have already moved into a new apartment and left behind my dream apartment to regularly be treated rudely by a more or less stranger, thanks to a slowly progressing dementia, to help with shopping, tidying up, cleaning, etc., and much of it falls on me because no one in the family takes care of him, but I find it inhumane to leave him completely alone with everything. For my children, I only have to remove the nettles and can let the rest grow wild.