What most people put on their roofs is 9.9 kWp, meaning that even with perfect south orientation and a Type 2 wallbox, you can’t even get 11 kWh at 12 o’clock (which really only means fast charging in marketing speak). The current vehicles now have a 40 kW battery. In reality, you can definitely fully charge 2 vehicles on a summer Sunday. During the week, you can forget about that. For example, with 40 km one way, you will have to charge starting Wednesday, which you can’t do without grid access since you only get home from 5 to 6 p.m. There is no realistically usable case without the storage or photovoltaic system being oversized so that you can charge without grid access, especially not in autumn or winter. This doesn’t mean that an electric car isn’t cheap to maintain; it definitely is, but under normal conditions, you have to let go of the idea of being able to charge the electric car with your own electricity. Although corona, regarding working from home at least in summer (May–September), gave me a charging window during the week.
Using the vehicle as storage (in the sense of a home battery) is the most nonsensical thing ever. Here, the charging losses and extraction losses are significantly higher than with a home battery.