Now I’ve noticed horrifying amounts like €700-900K for house planning. Can’t it really be cheaper?
We are building including land cheaper than €700-900K (in the Leipzig district/Saxony) and I am quite sure that it is possible for you as well. Would it be an option for you, if you build 1.5 stories, to first only finish the ground floor and plan the attic for finishing in the medium term? Or to build in such a way that your house is prepared for an extension in the medium term? I don’t know if building will ever become cheaper again, but this way you’ll also get a better feeling for whether you need/want/use the additional square meters or not. And, you will become de-sensitized regarding credit and spending money—it just flows away like water without pain ... once some time has passed. ;-) I know what I’m talking about. :-)
The house doesn’t have to be paid off by retirement either, why should it? Ours won’t be either and it doesn’t bother us in the slightest. :) (Of course, more money is usually nice. ;-) )
The amounts you see here in the forum are always very high and I don’t think they are representative in all cases. Have you ever looked around in model house parks? There are sometimes quite affordable houses, whose equipment and building service specifications of course must be thoroughly checked, but something suitable might be among them.
Or a big holiday home, in which you can also live “normally” in terms of equipment? Or a tiny house, next to which you could put a second one in the medium term, which you then connect with a breakthrough?
When you get the land, you can post the development plan here sometime. There are enormously many smart, knowledgeable forum members who can help you based on the specific development plan with well-founded advice.
I am rather curious whether you will get the land from the municipality. In our region people without children have no chance.