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2020-12-01 22:51:14
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I can completely understand the oppressive thoughts and the mental pictures including "what else is coming" regarding the neighborhood, etc. And that, even though I have often dealt/have to deal with this crap myself - I would have the same thoughts as you.
Talk to the daughter. Try to find something positive in it. For example, maybe he was already older and sick and it was his own choice. I’d say: it was no murder, no external culpability, no dismemberment... maybe then you can talk openly about it and lose this fear of the unknown (death).
Put a worry stone in the garden for him or plant a small shrub that magnetizes the unpleasant energy. Say his name and say goodbye, stay outside now. Just for yourselves. These ideas are not scientifically based, they don’t have to help, but it would be one way to deal with it.
That will pass. Smile, approach them and let them know you are aware of the circumstances.
Of course, we don’t believe in ghosts or anything like that, but what can be done so that the unpleasant aftertaste disappears?
Talk to the daughter. Try to find something positive in it. For example, maybe he was already older and sick and it was his own choice. I’d say: it was no murder, no external culpability, no dismemberment... maybe then you can talk openly about it and lose this fear of the unknown (death).
Put a worry stone in the garden for him or plant a small shrub that magnetizes the unpleasant energy. Say his name and say goodbye, stay outside now. Just for yourselves. These ideas are not scientifically based, they don’t have to help, but it would be one way to deal with it.
The neighborhood found out everything, it was already topic number one of conversation in the housing estate. And of course, as a new neighbor, you will later be asked about it.
That will pass. Smile, approach them and let them know you are aware of the circumstances.