We had a similar surcharge as you for white inside/grey outside. For both sides, it was something like a 5500 Euro surcharge.
We decided against colored and for white :)
For us, the surcharge for both was something like €6,500. For anthracite or grey outside - something between RAL 7012 - 7106 (but not foil-wrapped, instead with an aluminum shell) we had an extra cost of €3,800.00. Inside it would have been foil-wrapped, which is no problem. No color-foiled windows on the outside for me :)
White windows on the outside somehow look "cheap" to me - but of course that's a matter of taste. We will go for a darker grey, not directly anthracite. We found a great window manufacturer with really nice colored aluminum shells.
Colored inside I find difficult... You always have to think: maybe you have a colored wall, then a wooden floor, additional colorful accessories, possibly white/colored inner windowsills, then of course the window frame really stands out... It might then look more like a colorful, quirky villa. I would definitely be careful - it can definitely work - but it doesn't have to :D