.... not trying to talk me out of the basement ;).
We won’t do anything else....! - Just kidding. But the fact is, in my opinion, you rank hobbies higher than "real life." I understand that people like being outside, enjoy fishing, etc., but primarily it’s about creating a suitable space for five adults. Soon, at least, every resident will develop their own needs (and quirks), like an adult. I actually consider deriving that from the current state (not just the living room) a misplanning. In my view, this often happens when someone didn’t have something before (e.g., in a small apartment) and now wants it in the house. I would find it a shame if you reduced the glass surfaces, but about 40sqm of open living space is not much (considering the expensive basement request). I was not bothered by the size of the study in the basement but by the fact that this permanently takes place in the basement while other, ample basement areas are being built, whereas upstairs it is very tight or, in my opinion, too small—for five people. In a townhouse, people say you sell it eventually, but this house shouldn’t be too small by design when the kids are grown. Nowadays they stay home for a very long time—just imagine that (though a basement cell might be suitable for one or another again). On the ground floor, you have hardly any storage or space, while there is endless space in the basement; that simply doesn’t fit. Why shouldn’t fishing rods and bikes be stored in the carport or an above-ground garden shed, which can be generously sized? All that is much more comfortable and significantly cheaper; my workbench is in the extension of the extended carport. I would understand if the budget were limited and you lived in a tiny house; then no more is possible. But living in a relatively small house because I want to gain a few square meters of garden and give up necessary living space because I want to dance in the basement—that would never occur to me. Just imagine your good floor plan expanded with the sensible/necessary things and space for five, plus a nice garden house; why should that be nothing? I believe you lack the imagination of five older, sometimes exhausting, perhaps occasionally sick persons or guests over many many years. Build your house—but I wouldn’t do it like this with the basement anymore, because you don’t need it, but it harms your living house. Yes, just submit your other plan. As I said before, I find it a huge imbalance of priorities. For all that money, you could buy your own fishing pond.