But only what suits you
Then build like your friends - it’s just that many people here give you tips from experience. They know what should be changed next time - your friends know it too, but would never admit it
No, not only things that suit me, but the KZ question is worn out here, no matter which staircase or building style we had, a KZ would not become bigger in our case. Exactly because friends and family, out of false caution, do not tell you the honest opinion, we are here. Still, one can have controversial discussions about the mentioned matters. If my child at 12 or even 18 years old said that I built the children’s room too small for him, then I didn’t plan the house wrong, but made a mistake in the upbringing.