I have experienced something like that. I was a weekend commuter. The following Monday the door was kicked in and the valuables were gone.
Occasionally all sorts of things happen, but basically you can’t just kick in a modern, "proper" apartment entrance door (not an interior door) with the RC1 standard and a proper frame. RC2 then increases protection against prying to about 3 minutes, RC3 raises that to 5 minutes with additional tools, etc.
That could only have been someone from the building. Who else would know that I’m not there every weekend?
Crazy, right? Here, twice in the 4th floor, someone took a bike chained up in the hallway, and twice a year in the basement the heavy metal doors were brutally torn open to steal some junk that was worth at most 5% of the damage caused; these were drunkards from the nearby garden shed association after their evening binge drinking, as was later found out. Against such blockheads you could install RC25, but eventually everything opens with brute force. The "ordinary" apartment and house burglar does not act so brutally and can be protected against more easily. If someone does come with a crowbar, drill, angle grinder, etc., that’s a different kind of burglar with a different goal anyway. In my opinion, it is always important to know exactly what you want to protect yourself against. Implementing all possible standards does not always help; an individual case consideration is always recommended here as well.
The unpleasant feeling lingers for a long time.
Yes. Exactly that is probably the most unpleasant part about this topic. The feeling that a stranger has been freely moving around in my private rooms is usually the worst thing; I know people who then couldn’t live there anymore and moved out or even sold the property.
But a locked door of course doesn’t help if it can be pried open with a screwdriver in a minute...
Therefore RC2 or a similar standard; then it takes about 3 minutes, which is already a long time with a lot of noise that most burglars want to avoid. Most of them..... Ultimately, there is no perfect solution here either; but I think you shouldn’t be led too much by fear and be sold all sorts of things that don’t necessarily help as much as you’d like. Still, I would consider what would make me feel best myself, because what good is a purely logical-technical decision if you still feel insecure. Somewhere in between there lies the individual ideal solution.