Thank you very much for your comments.
In the current existing house, the entrance is also on the north side. You walk west past the house. To the east there is currently a garage (the house is marked on the development plan, which shows this; the new house is supposed to be in the same place). We actually quite like this option, we don’t have to hide the garden. It is primarily intended for planting and as a play area for the children. The outdoor living area for the family is mainly on the terrace. Access to the garden could be realized from the terrace to the east past the house, something similar is done in the existing building as well.
Regarding the stairs: we originally had a design with stairs stacked on top of each other leading to the basement and the upper floor, but we didn’t like that. We want an open staircase to the upper floor, which we do not want to hide in a stairwell. For the basement only a closed staircase is an option because it will not be heated.
At first we also thought about “saving space” with the stairs, but we now see the staircase more as a “design element” that can be shown. In addition, I find the open space under the stairs good for our dog, children’s toys, etc.
We want to mainly orient the windows to the south and north, since to the east and west you only see the neighbors. We’d rather enlarge the windows at the front and back than have more on the sides.
The knee wall on the upper floor is 1.20 m, so at most a roof window can be installed in the children’s rooms, which however is again not good for the photovoltaics.
Some women need a lot of closet space, but currently we have together a 1.80 m wide closet (and no basement or similar storage room). The dressing room (walk-in closet would be the better term) plus the closet next to the bed is actually completely sufficient; if not, there is also space for dressers under the window and opposite the bed.
I am still not happy with the shower under the sloped ceiling in the bathroom, I am open to new ideas here.