When I read the questions and answers from PACC666, I assume that he is a typical internet user without much networking knowledge. In this case, I would keep everything fairly simple.
Basically, all devices that have a LAN port should also be connected via LAN. This primarily relieves the WLAN. With network sockets, it’s better to have one too many than too few.
For the router, I would go with the FritzBox and for WLAN, the AVM repeaters, which should be connected via LAN and thus operate as access points. Yes, these devices cannot do POE, but that is not a disaster. The 3000 or 6000 models have the advantage that they have an external power supply and are therefore not directly tied to a power outlet. It is best to place these devices somewhere high and free on a piece of furniture. Access points should not be under, in, or behind furniture if you expect good WLAN performance.
Personally, I would build the whole setup differently, bigger, and more technically, but this should be quite suitable for a normal user.
Note: These mesh systems like the Orbi have a huge disadvantage. Since the main device operates as a router by default and is connected behind the normal router, you end up with a router cascade. This creates a separate network behind the normal network, where devices from one network cannot access the other. A typical problem is that, for example, a laptop connected via WLAN cannot find the network printer that is connected to the main router. Of course, you can switch these mesh systems to access point mode, but then a whole range of features, such as guest networks, are deactivated.