Phew, first of all, thank you very much for the numerous responses! I want to try to address the individual points.
: Ok, I once read somewhere that construction projects in southern Germany are generally more expensive than, for example, in NRW. Also, a basement of course costs a bit. Still: Additional costs for the basement (50K?) could roughly correspond to our extra wishes, so thanks for your experience.
, : Calculating on your own is a thing, all my calculations were always a bit cheaper than your calculation. Of course, you have broken down a few things in detail that I just roughly estimated. Now the question arises for me, how realistic is an estimate in relation to our wishes...? Is 1800/sqm accurate (LAN, home automation, controlled residential ventilation, ...) or should I rather calculate 2000/sqm as Steffen suggested?
Basically, it is important to me to rather calculate generously, then you are happy if it gets cheaper and have the financing secured.
: Good idea, from the previous answers it looks like the above-mentioned plot is clearly too expensive, so the time pressure is off. Does it make sense to also contact an architect? Can I assume that he will give me a realistic price or will rather quote it low?
: Bof-What? No, if you put it that way of course not. The overall look is more important to me here than any brands. I have also seen nice bathrooms in hardware stores, for example. It should just be a modern bathroom, walk-in shower, ideally without door because it is narrow, rain shower head, floating washbasin with double basin. Modern standard, instead of upscale? No idea...
Regarding the bathrooms, the question arises anyway whether there is actually considerable saving potential if you get the items on your own initiative and then find a craftsman who installs the items, ideally with a warranty. Possible?
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: To be honest, I can roughly estimate what the plots cost here. The further out you go, the cheaper it gets. We are talking about BoRis of 150-350, somehow I get the feeling it will be rather around 150.
Still, it is important to me to know an approximate sum of the house based on our wishes in advance, otherwise I will have to cancel the project at some point. What good is it to have a great plot but then realize that we can only afford a maximum of 40% of what was originally planned.
Let’s summarize: 450 will be tight, 500 would be better, nevertheless 450 is possible with a somewhat cheap plot and a few compromises?
I have one more question, incidental building costs... I consider 50K incidental costs a lot and to be honest I always assumed that outdoor facilities (at least partially) or e.g. also incidental plot costs are included in it. If not, what exactly are 50K for in a simple plot (without major earthworks) without a basement? Aren’t 30K more realistic there?
Best regards
Bo