(1) Had plastic in the first house and aluminum in the new one. I find aluminum slightly nicer, but according to BU also more prone to damage. Didn’t have any complaints about plastic either.
(2) We treated ourselves to venetian blinds on the main window in the living room, but we are also not in the north. I was there once and know how windy it is there. Back then we didn’t have venetian blinds either. But the sandbox would also fly through the air more often, so... understandable.
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(4) top. Had central ventilation in both houses. Costs money, costs quite a bit of electricity – but I would never want to miss it again.
(6) we don’t have it, but it can make sense. Definitely recommendable with kids / "Baby Shark" risk.
(8) top. Had wood in the first house, in the new house we have a closed concrete staircase with wood on top. In addition to the advantages you mentioned, the concrete staircase doesn’t creak when walking.
(10) We reluctantly went with the lift-and-slide system (because of the price). Found the other one somehow too flimsy, and you can lock yourself out with it. I have a talent for that kind of thing. Although we still have about 20 other doors around the house, one of which is surely open when we’re sitting outside. :D
(11) Get offers beforehand to estimate if it really comes cheaper. It wasn’t always the case for us.
(13) Electrical and home automation
Decision: Still quite open
Reason: Would like to do something but the solutions quickly get too expensive
(14) We did it, also considering resale value, and because it was included in the contract. We use the dish occasionally for public transport / media library.
(15) If you also have the washing machine there, another plus. Doesn’t cost the world. We only had the connection installed and built a provisional kitchenette there. Very useful, we use the sink daily.
(16) To it! Definitely useful. We had it in both houses and really use it very frequently.