IMHO the problem is rather (and here we approach the topic again) that in new construction very often more research goes into the perfect steam cooker for the kitchen than into the construction method, heating, and ventilation technology. The infrastructure should simply be as cheap as possible to purchase. The money is then preferably spent on fancy Q3 walls and gigantic bathing landscapes. Of course, everyone can set their own preferences and if someone perceives a rough plaster as a "90s tenement" or a "cow barn", well, fine, their decision, but then please don't complain that money can't be used elsewhere anymore. What follows, I have experienced myself: I lived for ten years in a poorly constructed apartment building where these alibi fans were installed in the wall that you have to put in to achieve the air exchange rate but should never actually use. My conclusion from that: ventilation is crap. I was simply wrong there, because bad ventilation is crap but good ventilation is wonderful!
And it goes on like this, it's a mixture of "seeing a horrifying example and generalizing from it" and "badmouthing what you don't have and/or don't know." When modern houses are labeled as submarines and plastic bags, then probably everything is true at the same time. Only since I have had a house with good ventilation have I noticed how abysmally bad the air in non-ventilated houses/apartments is.
For work, I lived for a long time in Southeast Asia, and when the monsoon comes, the aircon runs constantly to bring the indoor humidity to somewhat bearable levels. Nobody there cares about air outlet temperature or draft freedom. Now I don't have a monsoon in the Alpine foothills at 550m, and therefore the underfloor cooling makes the difference between "unpleasant" and "pleasant." It's not even really there, it just quietly does its job. No, neither in the Rhineland nor in Southeast Asia would I see my underfloor cooling as a substitute for aircon. But if the choice is "no air conditioning at all" or "not always completely optimal air conditioning," then my choice is clear.