: I agree with you that the comment against your architect also went clearly over the line in my opinion, no matter what one thinks of the floor plan.
Otherwise, I can only give you the advice to consciously engage with the suggestions from the homeowners and experts here in the forum. Unfortunately, many of your comments also gave the impression that you are trying to defend your floor plan at all costs. Look at your lifestyle habits and what is really necessary and also sensible. And don’t just focus on what you find visually appealing. Of course, liking it is important too, but if functionality suffers enormously as a result, then compromises should be considered.
Of course, many comments are also (but not only) shaped by one’s own preferences, but they are also there so that other homeowners think about these things. We also have a wardrobe that is only about a meter wide, but we have deliberately thought it through and only hang seasonal jackets and the kids’ daycare backpacks there and only the “seasonal shoes” are stored there. However, I must also say that my husband has more shoes overall than I do as a woman. Garden and muddy clothes are in the basement and the winter/summer clothes are accordingly in the wardrobe. That suits us accordingly. Whether that is the case for you or will be with the children yet to come, you have to decide yourself. One could just as well debate about the kids’ bathroom, the bedroom/dressing/bathroom situation, etc.... These are really individual things, but ones you should think about carefully, which must also be sensibly placed and functionally accommodated in the end.
But you should really reconsider the other comments and concerns. Especially when you are investing so much money, you should want to get the best possible out of it, shouldn’t you?