Well, the question is actually not so easy to answer. We also faced the choice and listened to 6 architects and about 15 general contractors. Everything was included, from prefab house GCs to solid houses, from local to large providers. Also the entire range with the architects... from the passive house builder to the local, down-to-earth one. Although I have to say this: there are hardly any down-to-earth architects. It is very difficult to really find someone who does not just want to do their own thing but also keeps the client’s budget in mind. One only wants to build KfW40, another only wants timber frame construction, a third told us to see if we could find 100k under grandma’s mattress... etc.
Of course, everything was represented among the GCs as well... from the chain-smoking representative of Fingerhaus to the managing director of a local GC, to conversations with statements like "oh, you’re young and want to build individually... we don’t want that... young people only compare on the internet, we prefer to build with seniors who accept any price" – there really was EVERYTHING!
In the end, after a long, intensive search, we decided on a renowned local GC. From them, we got a list of addresses (there were 10 or more on it) with whom we spoke randomly. Additionally, we went to an open house day, talked with homeowners who were right in the middle of the shell construction, whose addresses were not on the list, and with homeowners who had already lived there for 7 years. In short: we thus had a perfect overlap and felt well taken care of there, even though the negotiations became increasingly tough and nerve-wracking the longer they lasted, and we really stood several times on the verge of quitting.
For the persistence, I think we were/will be rewarded. We really negotiated a lot in and also had maximum flexibility. Even now during the construction phase. For example, we arranged the earthworks contractor ourselves. Or we were always flexible during the shell construction phase to decide whether we wanted to make the window smaller now, or switch the heating system, or arrange the tiles ourselves, etc.
I have to say, there is no construction site that runs perfectly, keep that in mind. Building is a nightmare! If you think you hire someone (whether architect or GC) and then everything will just work out, you are mistaken. You have to deeply familiarize yourself with the subject, with things you don’t know today, and you have to keep a critical eye on the construction process. Otherwise, you will never be happy with the result.
It isn’t just black or white. You can also have a lot of flexibility with the GC. Sure, they have their concept, but that doesn’t mean they won’t deviate. Possibly at higher conditions. But you know what it costs. With an architect, you have zero budget security. That as well as the approach of some architects discouraged us. In addition, it is as described here. The GC has a completely different leverage over the trades than the architect or someone who contracts individually. We are currently experiencing that here in our area. Every architect’s construction site is a disaster.
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Completely different with us: 4-8 people are on the construction site every day. We started in mid-June, the shell will be finished next week, move-in is end of December. Contractually guaranteed, if not, the GC pays a penalty. We negotiated that in. In addition, we have an expert on our side who monitors the construction process. And everyone standing in front of our construction site praises the quality and speed. That gives me the feeling of having done the right thing. We have outpaced every architect’s construction site by miles, even though some started much earlier. In these times, I would only build with a GC. Find yourself a renowned local GC. They are more flexible. And get yourself a lawyer who reviews the contract. Also, get an expert, e.g. from the Association of Private Homeowners or the Homeowners’ Protection Association. Believe me, you will need them if you want to sleep peacefully. And be prepared that the construction phase will still be the most stressful time in your life! But in the end, there is the result, and if you aren’t afraid to get involved, you won’t regret it! We would definitely do it that way again!