There have already been enough interested parties from the family environment, I think on the open market the house with the (very awesome) plot should go for 100,000+. We would take the appraised 80,000 and save the property transfer tax.
I would actually describe us as a young couple (both still under 30), but I still see 48 years as a reasonable period. By the time that is up, we will be almost 80 – who knows what the world will look like then... The landowner wants to sell (an impoverished estate), so I also see good chances of buying it in 10 years.
It would be great for us that with 250,000 we could put together a great house and then have free scope for further investments for many years. We could actually live in it from the first interior construction steps (the usual) and then gradually, for example, finish converting the attic or similar.