I would say wait and see with you now. There is some personal, emotional unrest at play right now... It’s just a house.
but since we really want the property, I don’t want to hold a gun to the buyer’s head...
Held at the head of your wallet, the gun is worse for you. First eliminate your weak point, not buying the house with a clear mind.
Something like this could also happen to the OP: The house goes to the realtor, who can’t fulfill his promises, and half a year later the seller contacts the OP again.
What do you mean by “ruthless offer”? To come before the brokers’ assessment? I don’t think that interests the seller. He wants to gauge the price
That’s exactly what it’s about, and if necessary you practice it in front of the mirror or in a role-play with a good friend: selling a house is a
business among adults. If the seller wants to “play price teasing,” you have to make it clear to him that you will not
play along. By a ruthless offer I mean: the offer must be reasonably time-limited and linked with the note that the seller does not need to come to you regretfully anymore if the broker blabbermouth leaves him out in the rain. The offer must of course be fair, so not with the intention on your part to gauge how far the seller will let himself get ripped off. Mention his price expectation and set it against the deduction arguments, without leaving out positive points. Speak with the same persistence as in the guide of a structured sales rep “Mr. Customer” stands. Mention your fear of rising gas prices only very incidentally and with the addition that of course it is not the duty of a builder to foresee the market conditions at the time of sale when choosing the heating (but then return to the tear gland of your wallet). You have to convince the seller and outdo the broker’s smooth talk with eloquence – not with a bid that exceeds the broker’s dream clouds as a higher number. 1. Stand naked in front of the mirror 2. Close your eyes and take a minute to 3. Imagine you’re wearing an expensive suit; 4. Now speak your text and 5. Proudly remember how convincing your voice sounds now. That’s how it works in the price negotiations too. You beginners always pay way too much – sorry, that had to be said now :-)