Right, it’s all a question of priorities and luckily everyone can do as they please! We benefit a lot from our house and garden. I also don’t like that it’s not feasible to realize this in Rosenheim for under 1 million, and the price/performance ratio definitely has to be considered. On the other hand, we both earn over 100k with significant growth potential, so the little house is just possible. Even without a charitable loan from the parents. And incidentally also far away from any allowances so that we don’t have to pay for the care of the parents...
Otherwise, I find it outrageous to talk about "ripping off" when there are parents who like to give gifts to their children. I really hope my children will never feel like they are ripping us off. I just love to give gifts to my children. But preferably with a house, rather than a Porsche.
By the way, I am also "jealous" when my girlfriend builds a great detached house with all the bells and whistles on her parents' property. The 500k that the property would have cost can flow into the house for her. But that doesn’t change the fact that I would of course have done exactly the same in her position.