Hello, thanks for the info.
Why we couldn't save any equity is quickly explained.
Late bloomer, finished high school at 20, then military service, apprenticeship, and studies. So I only finished at 32. That's more or less normal for an academic.
As hinted, we have lived in Munich for the last 12 years. Gained first work experience and had children. In Munich, we had a good semi-detached house with heating costs of 2,700 EUR for the last 5 years. The children had to be cared for privately due to the lack of daycare places. For the first two, for example, that was 2x760 EUR per month. Added to that are the extremely high living costs. Yes, groceries and all services like tire changes or similar are not equally expensive everywhere in Germany. A simple Müller rice pudding also costs 20 cents more there than here in BB.
Salaries in Munich are dropping enormously due to the high influx of cheaper skilled workers and are pushing all salaries downwards.
Since I travel throughout Germany as a self-employed SAP consultant and simply couldn’t get anything at an adequate price in Munich anymore, eventually the line was drawn with this city. Also because you can't afford anything within a 40 KM radius there either. I'm talking about amounts well beyond a million here. Paying that off is a generational matter even with my salary.
Anyway, we have therefore decided to turn our backs on this city and go back towards home, where parents and friends live nearby.
We knew it wasn’t super cheap here either. Nevertheless, even the dream house with land here in the commuter belt is about 50% cheaper than in the Munich commuter belt—which by the way can stretch as far as Rosenheim nowadays.
I can also muster 6,000 on my own and yes, 3,000 for the house would theoretically be possible. I also have to say that of course there are still various additional costs—private health insurance with three children and no chance to return to statutory health insurance is another factor.
But I don’t want to complain now, so chin up and look ahead.
Here we have the opportunity to save equity, in MUC that was definitely not the case.
Another option would be to buy a house that is already built.
More important, as you have recognized, is the bank. We will find out soon what is possible there. I hope something works out. Otherwise, I understand politics and the economy even less.
No score, no debt, good interest rates, good income, and no loan? Then something isn’t right. We can presumably forget about funding because I earn too much, well.
I'm slowly getting angry again :/