same_da
2020-08-11 09:09:14
- #1
You have no idea how "great" it feels when I bust my ass to do my Master's degree alongside my job to climb higher. To be able to afford a property on my own. And my neighbor puts his feet up, doesn’t lift a finger more than necessary at work, and proudly announces that he has now paid off his property. With the early inheritance from Dad.
Ok. As psychological advice: it’s not the fact that he was able to pay off a house so easily that makes you unhappy – it’s only when you compare his situation to yours that you feel bad. Focus more on yourself and what you have achieved/want to achieve. Otherwise, you will always feel life is unfair to you. There is always someone who seemingly had it better or easier in life. (Whether this is really the case behind the scenes or if that person feels the same way is another matter.)