It’s not about what criticism you bring up, but how you bring it up. And for example, you can describe something as "unsuitable/inappropriate" or as "sh...". Although I am happy about the criticisms and grateful, as I said, I have the feeling that some were only aimed at putting me down.
You are probably right there. But here, some posts are polite and courteous and bring reality closer to you, and only you are resistant to it. Then you shouldn’t be surprised if someone at some point in this thread wonders whether...
Number of people, age: 2 adults + 2 children
... you are one of the children and your parents just don’t know what you’re doing.
The greatest criticism I received concerns the partition wall in the bedroom and the "children's bathroom". For both points, I can also understand the concerns and negative aspects.
It is just the crowning point of the entire construct, which can’t be taken seriously here. It may be harsh... but if someone wants to convince me here of a sliding door installed above a double bed, then I doubt their common sense.
Exactly for this reason, I am here to gather experience. The better everything can be fixed/improved in advance the better. And it’s not as if I immediately sit in a paraglider, but I try myself at the simulation.
You don’t gain experience by reading or asking, only knowledge. Experience is the consequence of practical approach.
However, you also don’t gain knowledge when a layman tells the expert what’s what and neither listens to nor believes the expert.
If you want to paraglide, you have to deal with theory first. Only then do you go to the training field.
What you are doing here is dreaming about the sport and then telling the experienced at the field without theory why he ignores the safety regulations and wants to change them according to his whim. Just before takeoff, you then argue why your naive attitude is the better one.
And no, it is not bashing when someone directly says that something is ill-considered, doesn’t work or is even poorly executed.