There is no right and "best possible" order.
For a single-family house, no, yes. It would be about self-occupancy and the paths would be as different as the people. But a multi-family house for rental is a market object.
Sure, the architect is insanely important.
You could smoke an architect in the sense of a single-family house painter, when it comes to a rental building. For that, there is a different kind of architect, they are more like CAD-affine business economists.
Perhaps just as important is that all family members involved come together and set the framework conditions.
With relatives eat and laugh, but never do business. An income property is an income property and cows belong in the meadow instead of on the ice. I didn’t want to be dependent on whether my sister married an idiot, or whether Aunt Else and Uncle Gustav quarreled over inheritance. Specialized lawyers are just as important as specialized architects – especially when the number of co-owners exceeds the number of residential units.