kati1337
2023-02-28 21:39:10
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My poor husband is currently doing absolutely everything, from taking complete care of the firstborn, to household chores, to earning money. Asking him to do that as well – potentially just hours before the birth – would be a bit much. Especially since we don’t even have the materials and paint ready for it. Unfortunately, I have been pretty useless for a few weeks now. Due to some prior health issues, the last weeks of pregnancy for me are always largely dominated by lying around. But when it starts, the little one will stay with grandma for now, and afterwards I think we can involve the family for the short-term solution to the wall problem. Then my husband doesn’t have to do it alone. After all, that’s why we moved here, to finally have family nearby. ;) I don’t take this lightly, the children already have bad odds when it comes to allergies, this runs in both branches of the family...Why can't your husband do that?
Thanks, I wish that to myself too. I fought against an induction for 2 weeks because I feared a “bad slide,” although you never really know that beforehand.then I technically wish you a good slide :rolleyes:
We don’t either, the baby sleeps in our room anyway. We will take care of the affected room as soon as possible. But otherwise it’s really fine. If the dresser hadn’t even been moved, we would never have noticed it. Everything else in that room, corners, window reveals – completely fine, no spots to be seen. The room is also ventilated and cleaned very regularly, the issue is really very concentrated on the wall adjoining the shower. And believe me – the last thing I ever wanted was to come home from the hospital with my newborn and then unlock the door to this transitional "dump." But life is what happens while you’re making other plans. And apparently you’re never more fertile than when you’re not even in a hurry. :D When the sale of the old house was settled and we knew we were moving, we had decided that a second child was desired. That’s when we “aimed for it,” expecting that at my age it would take a while for something to happen. Well, it then took a while – about 2 weeks or so. :D For quite some time we even hoped that the house might be finished faster than the baby – but even with our so far pretty smooth construction, a delay or two was inevitable. So now we take it as it is. The little one will take her first steps on the parquet floor in the new living room anyway. And we always have a good story to tell when we look back on the last 1-2 years. =)I wouldn’t even go in there with a baby.