Construction project and building permit feasible?

2019-09-06 14:27:35

Are your children boys or girls? I had two boys who were only a year apart in age and wanted to sleep in the same room until school started (from 6/7 years), even though a room stood empty. Many siblings don’t necessarily want their own room.

One boy and one girl. So sooner or later there will probably be disagreements. Number 3 will definitely be the same gender as one of the two. I have to process everything and we’re looking around. Currently, the four of us sleep in one room.

2019-09-06 17:41:36

Yes, since I only work full-time when my wife is at home with EG. Afterwards she goes back to full-time because the salary is significantly higher and I have calculated with 25 hours. I have NOT included the care allowance. I took the salary from back then. IT WILL be more. Besides, I’m not studying for fun. I just can’t factor that in. But if I find something, I won’t start shifts and more money.

Sorry if I say this to you so directly now, but you’re fooling yourself. A few pages earlier you want to get away from shifts but nicely include the money from them. Here you write that you are expecting more money after your studies. Are you aware that you will be an entry-level professional? Unless you are studying medicine, I would assume for now that you will at most get what you currently receive with all the allowances. Those will disappear without “shifts.” Please don’t be mad at me, but it seems to me that you are painting your financial and professional situation in a very rosy light. I don’t understand why you’re in such a hurry... I would really recommend that you at least save up the additional costs first. That shouldn’t be hard for you, although I find it somewhat strange that you’d rather sink your saved money into a (new) car for over 30k when the house is actually priority number one. I think you’re getting yourself stuck in something.

2019-09-06 19:12:28

just so... it is _the_ TE

2019-09-06 19:57:18

I don't know if everything is always so proportional. Five people can also fit at my kitchen table in my kitchen (the table can also become a bit bigger), and on the sofa as well.

Yeah, I’m always surprised by the sizes of over 160/200 sqm. But to each their own.
We have a 50+ sqm open space. When partying, they stand skin to skin at our small standing table in the kitchen area: you don’t need a big place for the best party. And if not everything runs smoothly in everyday life, you at least see each other sometimes—I think that’s good. 109 also works. 130 better. 150 even better

Currently, the four of us sleep in one room.

But that won’t last long: everyone needs privacy for their development.

although I find it a bit strange that you’d rather sink your saved money into a (new) car for over 30k, when the house is actually priority number one.

The house priority apparently only exists since there was trouble with the landlord again two weeks ago. That’s why I think too many emotions make the rest of the world look rose-colored here.

2019-09-06 20:32:55

Sorry, if I tell you this so directly now, but you are lying to yourself. A few pages earlier you want to get away from the shifts but nicely include the money from them. Here you write that you are calculating with more money after your studies. Are you aware that you will be a career starter? Unless you are studying medicine, I would now assume that you will get at most what you are currently receiving with all the bonuses. Those disappear without "shifts."

Please don't be mad at me, but it seems to me that you are sugarcoating your/your financial and professional situation. I don't understand why you are in such a hurry...

I would really recommend that you at least save up the additional costs first. That shouldn't be difficult for you, although I again find it a bit strange that you would rather sink your saved money into a (new) car for over 30k when the house should actually be priority number one.

I think you are getting yourself caught up in something.

My talks and as said, remains a dream

2019-09-06 20:36:23

Even though I share the same opinion that the numbers are much too optimistic, there is still hope that things can actually be better in x years. But there are so many unknown variables regarding new job, salary, children, etc., that really only waiting until the expected conditions have arrived helps. Fortunately, new equity should also be available then.

I know my comments about finances were unwelcome, but I don’t mean that at all in a bad way. You have good prospects, just only in several years.

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