Construction financing with child support?

Hi, then it’s time to put on tougher gloves... If the ex has no money or can’t get financing, that’s her problem: Option 2 doesn’t work, then option 3 it is and that’s that. Option 1 is obviously out. It has nothing to do with not wanting to, it can be clarified, just don’t let yourself be kept waiting anymore. Olli

Morning,
then it's time to put on the gloves...
If the ex has no money or can't secure financing, that's her problem:
Option 2 doesn't work, then option 3 it is, and that's that.
Option 1 is clearly out of the question.
It's not about unwillingness, it can be arranged, just not be kept waiting any longer.
Olli

Option 3 will probably be the best solution - that's what any common sense tells you, and since the relationship is tense and the ex-husband wants as few points of friction as possible, it's also the best solution.
Only the sale will probably be dragged out or "manipulated" until the trainee teacher is qualified and can finance - tedious :rolleyes:

Only the sale will probably be dragged out or "manipulated" until the trainee teacher is a teacher and can finance it - tedious :rolleyes:

Then just threaten with "force" option 3.
Make it clear that payments to the bank will be stopped immediately.
The bank will probably first turn to the ex; if nothing comes from there, foreclosure is threatened - then she has nothing left...
I would make this point just as emphatically.
Olli

P.S.
If at 39 years old you are still without a proper job, you can't expect much support from that direction either. To me, it looks more like a made-up nest.

then one should toughen up the bandages...

A classic: When you don’t know what to do next: apply pressure.
Analogous to "I’m going to pairship now" --> "I’m going to trump now."

Ultimately, your partner has to decide how to deal with it. Does he really want his private matters spread out here like this? I mean, the thread is entertaining, but how long the new man studied and what income the two of them have is actually none of our business.

Now you have been presented with various options. Ultimately, it’s not just a numbers game, because the best solution is useless if the other side does not want/can’t cooperate. I think it is your own situation, and I know that it is exhausting. However, if you were to talk with the other side, you might see some things a bit differently again. Maybe there is a third party, a notary or something similar, who can neutrally present solutions that are acceptable and bearable for both sides, because usually these issues stem from old problems and conflicts from the marriage, which are now being dealt with regarding the property or often also the children. You can work out whatever you want, but if the other side doesn’t want it, you’re left out in the rain, no matter how logical it is. Usually, each side is afraid of being taken advantage of, unfortunately sometimes justified; maybe you also have to give the point of clarity more importance than the money, even if it’s difficult. From personal experience, I can only say that every day sooner in which there is clarity for both sides is a gain that cannot always be paid with money. Usually, these topics then also permanently burden the two new relationships, the children, etc... terrible!