I just spoke with the construction company; he said 2 to 3 times that it might be better if we look for another company. If there are already problems now, then that is not a good basis. He has been building houses for over 30 years and never had any problems with the construction contract. I currently think it’s not even about the scope of work, because that basically mainly concerns the naming of brands, sizes, etc., and some things that still need to be added or are unclear. Nothing disadvantageous for the construction company. I have the feeling it’s much more about the construction contract. He is not really willing to change it. The construction company has been using it for years and there have never been any problems. He said you can make handshake agreements with him and he stands behind the work of his employees; if there is a problem, he makes sure it is taken care of. In our region, he has a very good reputation and many people recommended him to us. Hhhhm, now we have a meeting in two weeks to clarify things. :( It seems like everything is starting from scratch again...
@ Yvonne: For me, it’s not about pushing through all my demands. Sometimes it’s just about formulations or deleting words because, for example, "essentially free of defects" could become a problem if it comes to that. What does essentially mean? You see, it’s not about pushing through all demands. It was already mentioned above, contract comes from compromise, that’s what the construction company meant on the phone. That is also true and in my interest, but it must also be understood when I want to protect myself or just want some things described in more detail. If a heating system is installed for me, that’s nice, but what kind? Performance? Brand? That wouldn’t actually be a problem to just name, right? If I want an entrance canopy, that’s also nice. But just the statement that an entrance canopy will be built is quite unspecific. Are those now 2 chairs above the door, a simple board from the hardware store, or a canopy in a gable roof shape, with black, engobed roof tiles of brand x and the roof stands on 2 round columns diameter x? That’s something different. That’s actually what it’s about, in regard to the scope of work. It’s clear to me that many construction companies don’t deviate from their contracts. But a compromise on trivial formulations would be possible. If I now come with a contractual penalty of xxxx euros, I understand the construction company’s concerns. Or with a bank guarantee. But when, for example, the building application is to be handed over to us or the construction completion date or construction schedule, these are not things that put the construction company at a disadvantage now.
Still, thanks for all your answers. But feel free to keep writing; it’s quite interesting to see what others think :)