Finch039
2023-08-09 11:56:59
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Do yourself a favor and don’t overestimate yourself and your helpers.
We are currently doing a major renovation ourselves. The contrast with and without a child is really extreme, our daughter was born during the renovation phase. Before the birth, everything was much more relaxed and there was more time. You don’t want to leave the mom alone all the time and also want to be there for the child yourself or have some time with them.
Regarding helpers, in my experience, you mainly need them at the beginning when you can quickly cover large areas with simple tasks (gutting, removing wallpaper, etc.)
After that, it usually becomes more difficult because you need people who know what they are doing. Otherwise, you’re just watching and explaining, so you might as well do it yourself. And the people who know what they’re doing are usually motivated and present at the beginning – but motivation often decreases significantly as the construction phase progresses. The brother-in-law, brother, or best friend doesn't want to be on the construction site three times a week anymore. My most important helper is my brother-in-law – but after about 9 months he understandably didn’t have much desire or time left either. Then you’re kind of left there and have to manage more or less on your own.
On top of that is of course self-motivation. At the beginning, everything is great, exciting and fun. After six months, it slowly takes a toll both physically and mentally. Added to that is time pressure, etc.
I don’t want to make you worry, but just give you a realistic assessment. Better to budget a few euros more for professional services. Only calculating material costs is completely unrealistic. I am seeing it firsthand myself: in the end, the carpenter is going to renovate the stairs, and someone is suddenly coming to plaster and lay tiles, even though we could theoretically do it ourselves. Simply to finally get it done ;)
We are currently doing a major renovation ourselves. The contrast with and without a child is really extreme, our daughter was born during the renovation phase. Before the birth, everything was much more relaxed and there was more time. You don’t want to leave the mom alone all the time and also want to be there for the child yourself or have some time with them.
Regarding helpers, in my experience, you mainly need them at the beginning when you can quickly cover large areas with simple tasks (gutting, removing wallpaper, etc.)
After that, it usually becomes more difficult because you need people who know what they are doing. Otherwise, you’re just watching and explaining, so you might as well do it yourself. And the people who know what they’re doing are usually motivated and present at the beginning – but motivation often decreases significantly as the construction phase progresses. The brother-in-law, brother, or best friend doesn't want to be on the construction site three times a week anymore. My most important helper is my brother-in-law – but after about 9 months he understandably didn’t have much desire or time left either. Then you’re kind of left there and have to manage more or less on your own.
On top of that is of course self-motivation. At the beginning, everything is great, exciting and fun. After six months, it slowly takes a toll both physically and mentally. Added to that is time pressure, etc.
I don’t want to make you worry, but just give you a realistic assessment. Better to budget a few euros more for professional services. Only calculating material costs is completely unrealistic. I am seeing it firsthand myself: in the end, the carpenter is going to renovate the stairs, and someone is suddenly coming to plaster and lay tiles, even though we could theoretically do it ourselves. Simply to finally get it done ;)