Jurassic135
2023-08-11 08:29:14
- #1
I am shocked that the woman goes along with this. She probably doesn’t have a good overview of her own finances if she voluntarily gives an interest-free loan to the man by her side and hopes that, in the event of a separation, she at least gets this money back - or she has so much that she doesn’t care.
(What actually happens if, for whatever reason, the value of the house decreases and he can no longer repay what she invested?)
On top of that, she also lives there. That means she will very likely also: clean, maintain, design, take care of it. That also contributes to preserving the value. How is that compensated in the event of a separation?
If children then come along and she can contribute less financially during parental leave, but instead takes on the tasks of a cook, housekeeper, nanny, and other matters around the house for free, it becomes really bad.
Such arrangements are one of the reasons why so many women end up in old-age poverty: their own money is good-naturedly invested interest-free in the man’s house, without real security.
(What actually happens if, for whatever reason, the value of the house decreases and he can no longer repay what she invested?)
On top of that, she also lives there. That means she will very likely also: clean, maintain, design, take care of it. That also contributes to preserving the value. How is that compensated in the event of a separation?
If children then come along and she can contribute less financially during parental leave, but instead takes on the tasks of a cook, housekeeper, nanny, and other matters around the house for free, it becomes really bad.
Such arrangements are one of the reasons why so many women end up in old-age poverty: their own money is good-naturedly invested interest-free in the man’s house, without real security.